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When the past stops fitting: Redefining belonging in a restless world.

Opinion & Analysis
reflection

AS the year draws to a quiet close, there’s a gentle pause that invites reflection.

The final stretch of the calendar often feels like a blur, a race to finish what we started.

Beneath the noise and fatigue, there’s an opportunity to slow down and ask the questions that matter: What worked this year? What didn’t? What can I design differently to make next year better, not just bigger?

Reflection isn’t just about looking back; it’s about learning how to move forward with greater wisdom.

It’s about turning experiences into insight and insight into action. As you sit with the lessons of the past months, remember: consistency matters more than perfection. You don’t need a flawless record to grow; you just need a steady rhythm of effort and awareness.

So many of us fall into the trap of waiting for the “perfect time” to begin again. But the truth is, “someday” never comes. The weeks left in this year are not to be wasted; they are raw material, ready to be shaped into habits, routines and systems that can carry you confidently into the new year.

Start by reflecting on your patterns. Where did resistance show up in your life this year? Where did procrastination quietly steal your momentum? It’s not laziness, but worse.

It’s often fear, self-doubt or fatigue in disguise. Recognise it, but don’t let it define your pace. The best way to overcome resistance is to reduce it. Start small.

Take one action that moves you forward today, however minor it may seem. Remember, motivation follows action, not the other way around.

Now is the time to think in terms of systems rather than goals.

Goals give direction, but systems create progress.

A system is a structure that makes success the default rather than the exception; it’s the process you follow, the habits you anchor, the environment you design.

Instead of waiting for January to start afresh, use these final weeks to build those tracks now.

Ask yourself:

  • What systems do I already have in place and are they serving me?
  • Where do I tend to fall off track and why?
  • How can I simplify the path to my goals so that consistency feels natural, not forced?

Maybe it’s creating a study routine that fits your energy levels instead of fighting them.

Maybe it’s preparing your meals in advance so your nutrition supports your focus. Or maybe it’s as simple as setting boundaries for rest and reflection.

Whatever your systems are, design them to be fail-proof, not perfect, but adaptable.

Attach your new habits to existing ones. If you want to start journaling, write for five minutes after your morning coffee.

If you want to exercise more, leave your workout clothes where you can see them. Each small adjustment is a step towards a stronger foundation.

And don’t forget to track your progress. Reflection without measurement is just wishful thinking.

Write down your wins, however small, and review them. This practice turns effort into evidence.

It reminds you that growth is happening, even when results seem slow. As you reflect, remember that repetition is not monotony; it’s programming.

Each time you show up, you reinforce your identity as someone who follows through. Success is the reward for persistence, not perfection.

The year may be ending, but your story is not. You still have time, not to overhaul everything, but to build something sustainable.

Use these remaining weeks not to rush, but to refine. Let your reflection guide your reconstruction.

So keep moving forward.

Release the mindset of “I’ll try” and replace it with “I will.” Stay connected to the process, not the outcome.

Reflect deeply, adjust wisely, calmly, consistently and intentionally.

The year isn’t over yet.

It’s offering you one last chance to practise becoming the person you promised yourself you’d be.

  • Rutendo Kureya is a medical student at Saint Petersburg State Paediatric Medical University, Russia. She is passionate about issues concerning the state and welfare of fellow Zimbabweans. She can be reached at  [email protected]. Mobile: +7 996 274 9866 Facebook: Rutendo Kureya. She writes here in her personal capacity.

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