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Facebook friend offer exposes mans other wife

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Facebooks automatic efforts to connect users through friends they may know recently led two Washington women to find out they were married to the same man, at the same time. That led to the man, corrections officer Alan L ONeill, being slapped with bigamy charges. According to charging documents filed Thursday, ONeill married a woman […]

Facebooks automatic efforts to connect users through friends they may know recently led two Washington women to find out they were married to the same man, at the same time.

That led to the man, corrections officer Alan L ONeill, being slapped with bigamy charges. According to charging documents filed Thursday, ONeill married a woman in 2001, moved out in 2009, changed his name and remarried without divorcing her.

The first wife first noticed ONeill had moved on to another woman when Facebook suggested the friendship connection to wife number two under the People You May Know feature.

Wife number one went to wife number twos page and saw a picture of her and her husband with a wedding cake, Pierce County Prosecutor Mark Lindquist told The Associated Press.

Wife number one then called the defendants mother. An hour later the defendant arrived at (wife ones) apartment, and she asked him several times if they were divorced, court records show. The defendant said, No, we are still married.

Neither ONeill nor his first wife had filed for divorce, according to charging documents. The name change came in December and later that month he married his second wife.

ONeill allegedly told wife number one not to tell anybody about his dual marriages, that he would fix it, the documents state. But wife number one alerted authorities.

Facebook is now a place where people discover things about each other they end up reporting to law enforcement, Lindquist said.

Athima Chansanchai, a freelance journalist who writes about social media, said Facebook over the years has played a role in both creating relationships and destroying them. Its just the latest vessel by which people can stray if they want to, she said.

ONeill (41) was previously known as Alan Fulk. He has worked as a Pierce County corrections officer for five years, sheriffs spokesman Ed Troyer said. He was placed on administrative leave after prosecutors charged him Thursday. He could face up to a year in jail if convicted.

ONeill and his first wife had issues that went back to 2009. In 2010, his first wife was arrested after an altercation with the woman who later became the second wife.

A Facebook message to wife number one was not immediately returned. There was no immediate phone number available for ONeill and his second wife.

Lindquist said its unclear why ONeill and wife number one didnt go through the divorce.